By Donna Braymer
Published by the Harrison Daily Times
Sept. 29, 2009
What’s wrong with a little lie every now and then? It is certainly
easy to do. But a lie is still wrong, whether little or big. Why?
Honesty is an very important character trait. Once you have a
reputation for not telling the truth, it’s hard to convince people you
have changed.
People around you need to know they can trust you, and can always
believe what you say.
To my shame, as a teenager, I was very good at not telling a lie, but
also not telling the whole truth. That is just as wrong.
Once you start telling small lies, it gets easier and easier to
continue the deception. I’ve known some people who have told enough
lies, they aren’t sure what the truth really is.
It’s often said, “Tell a lie long enough and loud enough, and people
will take it for truth.”
Sometimes we tell ourselves lies, which are also dangerous. We think
we are not very smart, or put ourselves down for making a mistake. If
you constantly bombard your inner self with negative thoughts, you
will become what you think and be very miserable.
Small lies turn into big lies and lots of complications. Learn to
always tell the truth, to yourself and others. You are human. When you
make a mistake, admit it. Don’t blame others — be honest. Take
responsibility and make wise, honest choices.
www.DonnaCBraymer.com
Monday, September 28, 2009
Monday, September 21, 2009
Cooperation
Cooperation is the key!
Published in the Harrison Daily Times
9.22.09
By Donna C. Braymer
Have you ever watched an ant farm at work? All of the ants cooperate with
each other to prepare for their daily and future survival. They are
such hard workers, it is interesting they do not have a “boss” or
“teacher” standing over them watching every move.
They live in colonies, and Wikipedia says, “The colonies are sometimes
described as superorganisms because the ants appear to operate as a
unified entity, collectively working together to support the colony.”
Cooperation is essential in a home, school and work environment.
Another definition states cooperation as being the association of
persons or businesses for common, usually economic, benefit.
Everyone benefits when the group cooperates. A classroom benefits
because everyone learns and enjoys the process.
A business benefits because customers want to come back and spend more
money.
The home benefits because we enjoy eating meals, wearing clean clothes
and doing fun activities as a family.
Work is involved in each aspect of cooperation. Where there is work,
there is reward. Businesses pass out paychecks and bonuses for hard
work. Schoolteachers pass out grades and year-end promotions for
learning well done. Cooperation helps families grow closer and enjoy
their time together.
See if you can spot someone cooperating today and give them a high
five!
www.DonnaCBraymer.com
Published in the Harrison Daily Times
9.22.09
By Donna C. Braymer
Have you ever watched an ant farm at work? All of the ants cooperate with
each other to prepare for their daily and future survival. They are
such hard workers, it is interesting they do not have a “boss” or
“teacher” standing over them watching every move.
They live in colonies, and Wikipedia says, “The colonies are sometimes
described as superorganisms because the ants appear to operate as a
unified entity, collectively working together to support the colony.”
Cooperation is essential in a home, school and work environment.
Another definition states cooperation as being the association of
persons or businesses for common, usually economic, benefit.
Everyone benefits when the group cooperates. A classroom benefits
because everyone learns and enjoys the process.
A business benefits because customers want to come back and spend more
money.
The home benefits because we enjoy eating meals, wearing clean clothes
and doing fun activities as a family.
Work is involved in each aspect of cooperation. Where there is work,
there is reward. Businesses pass out paychecks and bonuses for hard
work. Schoolteachers pass out grades and year-end promotions for
learning well done. Cooperation helps families grow closer and enjoy
their time together.
See if you can spot someone cooperating today and give them a high
five!
www.DonnaCBraymer.com
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Patriots Make A Differance
Patriots make a difference
Published in the Harrison Daily Times 9.15.09
Last Friday the United States remembered the attack our nation
suffered eight years ago on September 11, 2001.
The tragic event has been turned into a day to remember the
individuals that place their lives on the line to protect freedom and
provide safety.
I am very thankful for the brave men and women that serve in our
military, and provide local emergency help and protection. Sometimes
the question is asked, “Why would you want to have a job that could be
dangerous?”
During our life time, even working in a school can be considered a
dangerous job. I believe people choose a profession because they want
to make a difference. Everyone wants to feel needed and make like
their life count.
Does this line of thought apply to students? Yes it sure does. I still
remember students that were kind, helpful and protective. I’m sure you
know some that are cruel bullies, always demanding attention, and
causing problems.
What would our world be like if today’s students determined to be
young patriots? To have the needs of others put before their own. To
care for other people’s property and to respect authority. It is very
possible. Start by doing something for someone else, without expecting
any recognition.
Cowards attacked our nation and changed our world forever. Be a brave
patriot and determine to make a difference in a good way.
www.DonnaCBraymer.com
Published in the Harrison Daily Times 9.15.09
Last Friday the United States remembered the attack our nation
suffered eight years ago on September 11, 2001.
The tragic event has been turned into a day to remember the
individuals that place their lives on the line to protect freedom and
provide safety.
I am very thankful for the brave men and women that serve in our
military, and provide local emergency help and protection. Sometimes
the question is asked, “Why would you want to have a job that could be
dangerous?”
During our life time, even working in a school can be considered a
dangerous job. I believe people choose a profession because they want
to make a difference. Everyone wants to feel needed and make like
their life count.
Does this line of thought apply to students? Yes it sure does. I still
remember students that were kind, helpful and protective. I’m sure you
know some that are cruel bullies, always demanding attention, and
causing problems.
What would our world be like if today’s students determined to be
young patriots? To have the needs of others put before their own. To
care for other people’s property and to respect authority. It is very
possible. Start by doing something for someone else, without expecting
any recognition.
Cowards attacked our nation and changed our world forever. Be a brave
patriot and determine to make a difference in a good way.
www.DonnaCBraymer.com
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